It Runs in the Family (2003)

Wealth can't spare three male generations of the dysfunctional Jewish New York Gromberg family grief or grim reality. However successful in life, Alex never felt pleasing pride or proper parental support from perky patriarch Mitchell, who sarcastically still implies his values and priorities on everything, tolerated from their women's sake. Alex starts despairing his modern permissiveness may ruin his own bright firstborn, college-boy Asher, unlike adoring kid-brother Eli. A dorm-drug-bust pushes things to the limit- or beyond?